1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:03,880 Welcome to your very first commitment ceremony. 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:05,280 NARRATOR: Previously, 3 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,160 our couples received much needed guidance 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,560 from our three relationship experts. 5 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:12,640 Get curious. Open your mind up. 6 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,120 Lean in. Hear what the other is saying. 7 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:18,120 You are so special and we're going to get there. 8 00:00:18,240 --> 00:00:21,000 NARRATOR: Rachel and Steven's blossoming connection... 9 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:22,240 You are amazing. 10 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,040 ..was just one of many on full display. 11 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,120 Every day, we get closer. 12 00:00:26,240 --> 00:00:28,120 Like, it gets better every day. 13 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:31,440 Capital "Stay" with a smiley face 'cause I'm really happy. 14 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:33,520 Alissa, shut up! 15 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,200 'Cause all you do is speak with an infomercial voice. 16 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,080 Pipe down. 17 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:40,480 NARRATOR: But not everyone was feeling the love. 18 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:41,640 Yeah, we're going great. 19 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,080 But not everyone likes your happiness. 20 00:00:45,160 --> 00:00:47,200 NARRATOR: As Brook continued to question 21 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,440 Stella and Filip's authenticity... 22 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:51,960 Don't sit up here and make yourself be the victim. 23 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:53,640 You can't blame me for that. 24 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:55,560 I don't understand why you're coming at me. 25 00:00:56,800 --> 00:00:58,320 We'll just bring it back down. 26 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:01,160 We built a friendship very quickly during and after the honeymoon. 27 00:01:01,280 --> 00:01:05,720 ..Steve blindsides Rebecca, putting her in the friend zone. 28 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:07,560 Yeah? Yeah, look, I... Yeah. 29 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:08,720 Yeah. Yeah. 30 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:10,160 Like, yeah. 31 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,600 I would love to hear from Rebecca. 32 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:16,160 NARRATOR: John gave Steve seven days 33 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:19,040 to put more romantic effort into his marriage. 34 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:22,520 The challenge here, Steve, is getting onto the same page. 35 00:01:23,320 --> 00:01:24,440 (KNOCK ON DOOR) 36 00:01:24,560 --> 00:01:25,320 NARRATOR: Tonight... 37 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:26,200 (HIGH-PITCHED GIGGLE) 38 00:01:26,320 --> 00:01:28,040 Oh, what's going on? 39 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:31,160 ..our newlyweds enter the next phase of the experiment. 40 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:32,520 Hello! 41 00:01:32,640 --> 00:01:33,680 Intimacy week. 42 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,320 It's meant to build emotional closeness, safety, 43 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:40,160 and then all the playful aspects of a relationship. 44 00:01:40,280 --> 00:01:43,520 NARRATOR: While some embrace stepping out of their comfort zone.. 45 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:44,800 God damn. 46 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:46,400 How about we do those push-ups? 47 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:47,600 Come here. 48 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:49,440 You know, it's... 49 00:01:49,560 --> 00:01:51,640 ..Steve remains hesitant. 50 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:52,920 It's just not for me. 51 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:58,400 Were you bullied? Um... 52 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:00,440 "Has a stranger ever changed your life?" 53 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:05,640 What's your favourite quality about your ex? 54 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,680 NARRATOR: Julia's interpretation of intimacy... 55 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:11,040 How do you mean by that? Sorry. 56 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:14,560 ..leaves Grayson feeling confused and frustrated 57 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:16,240 with the lack of clarity. 58 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:19,200 Can you see any kind of future with me? 59 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,000 Um... 60 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:21,920 NARRATOR: And then... 61 00:02:22,960 --> 00:02:26,800 "Kiss me now. The kind of kiss that makes me feel something." 62 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:31,440 ..Steven's massive moment of truth. 63 00:02:44,720 --> 00:02:47,720 (GRAND MUSIC SWELLS) 64 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,280 First commitment ceremony. 65 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,280 Wowser. Yeah. 66 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:07,160 Wow, wow, wow. 67 00:03:07,280 --> 00:03:08,520 What a night, eh? 68 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:10,400 NARRATOR: It's the morning after 69 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,720 an eventful first commitment ceremony... 70 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:17,400 ..and the couples are reflecting on last night's dramatic events. 71 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:19,960 Hmm, last night blew up a little bit. 72 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,000 NARRATOR: A rift has emerged between some of the brides 73 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:25,800 after Stella raised concerns 74 00:03:25,920 --> 00:03:29,920 about Brook's treatment of her in the experiment. 75 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,440 I'm just speechless. 76 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,160 NARRATOR: Brook and Stella's conflict 77 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,360 began at the Red Flag, Green Flag task, 78 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:42,320 where Brook questioned Stella and Filip's relationship. 79 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:44,280 Surely, he gets on your nerves at times. 80 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:45,440 No. 81 00:03:45,560 --> 00:03:46,840 I don't believe you. What? 82 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,280 I don't believe you. 83 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,920 ..and at last night's commitment ceremony, 84 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:53,720 Stella made her concerns known. 85 00:03:53,840 --> 00:03:55,720 I guess, you know, it's kind of sad to learn 86 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,560 that at the age of 32, I have to relearn 87 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:01,280 that not everyone is wishing you happiness. 88 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:03,240 But no one's saying that 89 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:04,800 we're not happy for you, 90 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,320 like no one has said that. 91 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:08,840 No one yesterday said that we're not happy for you. 92 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:10,040 No. Don't sit up here 93 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:12,000 and make yourself be the victim, 94 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:13,480 because that's how it is. 95 00:04:14,960 --> 00:04:17,800 I don't know why Stella was coming at me. 96 00:04:17,920 --> 00:04:20,200 I obviously spoke my mind and was very direct. 97 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:24,360 I think everything I said was completely, you know, facts. 98 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:26,880 She is fully playing the victim, 99 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,040 like, "Oh, my gosh, everyone is jealous and unhappy for me." 100 00:04:31,280 --> 00:04:34,000 I really couldn't give a rat's arse about seeing Stella again. 101 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,320 Um, if she wants to apologise, I'll let her apologise. 102 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,600 But other than that, off you (BLEEP). 103 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,560 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 104 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,720 I was happy to see Brook call that out, I agreed. 105 00:04:45,840 --> 00:04:49,880 Stella is trying to be the victim and rally people like, you know, 106 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,480 on her side, like, "Poor me." You know? 107 00:04:52,600 --> 00:04:54,760 Stella believes that she is the strongest couple, 108 00:04:54,880 --> 00:04:57,440 the best person on this goddamn experiment. 109 00:04:57,560 --> 00:04:58,720 She's a little bit fake. 110 00:04:58,840 --> 00:05:00,760 No one's jealous of your relationship. 111 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,200 Yeah. Like, no one's coming in 112 00:05:02,320 --> 00:05:03,360 to try and ruin your relationship. 113 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:04,960 Well, it's blown up in her face now. 114 00:05:05,080 --> 00:05:07,680 I'm sure she's next door right now, 115 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,920 fricking whining and complaining about everyone. 116 00:05:12,640 --> 00:05:15,200 Why do you actually think that Brook was coming for you? 117 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,480 I don't know. 118 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:19,200 I really don't know. 119 00:05:19,320 --> 00:05:21,560 Like, we only met these people three times. 120 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:22,880 Yes. You know? 121 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:24,280 Yes. 122 00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:27,360 I've never experienced anything like it in my life. 123 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:30,960 At school, at university, at any work placement. 124 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:32,120 I work with women. 125 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:33,800 I've never experienced that. 126 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:35,600 Um... 127 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,560 It's pretty wild. 128 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:43,640 Obviously, like, I kind of first checked in with myself. 129 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,880 Have I done something wrong to rub someone that way? 130 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:49,760 And if I done, let me repair it. 131 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:52,240 I want to understand. 132 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,640 I want to learn, what did I do to, you know, 133 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:56,720 yeah, 134 00:05:56,840 --> 00:05:58,040 be sidelined? 135 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,600 When people are not happy within themselves 136 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,080 and within the relationship, 137 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:03,680 they really try to project that negativity. 138 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,360 I think that's what Brook exactly did. 139 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:10,440 I think she exposed that side of herself in front of everyone 140 00:06:10,560 --> 00:06:13,880 and like, some sort of anger was directed to me for some reason. 141 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:15,120 Obviously, it affected me, 142 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:19,240 but I know, like, I have nothing but kindness in my heart. So... 143 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:23,640 And if we miscommunicate, that's the last thing I want. 144 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,120 I'm not here for mean girls. 145 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,640 I'm here to build a relationship. 146 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,400 I'm not here for the girls' drama. 147 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:33,240 I'm enjoying this experience with you 148 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:37,080 and I think we're generally, like we're a good match. 149 00:06:37,200 --> 00:06:38,880 I protect my energy with Filip. 150 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,680 We feel solid, like, we don't need someone else 151 00:06:41,800 --> 00:06:44,200 to confirm to us how we feel. 152 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:51,840 NARRATOR: With the girls' conflict 153 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,880 sending shockwaves through the experiment, 154 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,160 Stella isn't the only one caught up in the fallout. 155 00:06:59,440 --> 00:07:01,280 The room literally went red. 156 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:02,880 It was a lot. 157 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:05,400 NARRATOR: At last night's commitment ceremony, 158 00:07:05,520 --> 00:07:08,040 a throwaway comment made by Alissa.. 159 00:07:10,960 --> 00:07:13,760 ..also attracted Gia and Brook's attention. 160 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:15,240 Alissa, shut up! 161 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:17,800 'Cause all you do is speak with an infomercial voice. 162 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:19,520 Pipe down. OK? 163 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,400 I was like, where the hell did that come from? 164 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,040 It wasn't even a bad comment. I just kind of... 165 00:07:25,160 --> 00:07:26,880 "Well, I got called fake", you know, 166 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:29,320 'cause I'm just throwing it out there, 167 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:32,800 and it was like blowing fire in my face. 168 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,960 Gia yelled at my face. 169 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,080 I had Brook yelling at me, 170 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:39,760 and it was just like mean girl vibes. 171 00:07:39,880 --> 00:07:43,440 I don't know where it's stemming from, but I'm not into it. 172 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:46,720 I've spoken nothing but highly of those girls 173 00:07:46,840 --> 00:07:48,160 ever since I've entered this experiment. 174 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:49,560 Mean girls, 175 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:51,720 they can be mean, but I'm not here for it. 176 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:53,760 And stuff was just out of line. 177 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:55,600 And it's embarrassing. It was embarrassing. 178 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:57,520 Really embarrassing. Like... 179 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,240 Hearing Gia, you know, scream at my wife like that, 180 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,320 it's shocking, it's mind-blowing, 181 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,040 and to see her being trash-talked like that, 182 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:07,440 you know, as her husband, it angers me, 183 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:09,080 if I'm being completely honest. 184 00:08:09,920 --> 00:08:12,440 No, I am proud of you, of how you handled that. 185 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:15,480 I mean, having someone just literally yell, 186 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:17,280 yell at you, like I don't... I know. 187 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:18,600 Like, I'm not gonna lie. I know! 188 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:20,800 I'm not gonna lie. I don't think I would have been able to sit there 189 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:22,080 and take that. 190 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,000 NARRATOR: With emotions running high 191 00:08:26,120 --> 00:08:28,760 after last night's commitment ceremony, 192 00:08:28,880 --> 00:08:32,200 one couple is dealing with struggles of their own. 193 00:08:32,320 --> 00:08:33,600 (KNOCK ON DOOR) 194 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:34,760 NARRATOR: This morning, 195 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,040 Mel has invited husband, Luke, over... 196 00:08:37,160 --> 00:08:38,480 Hello. Hello. 197 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:39,880 How are you going? Good. How are you going? 198 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:40,920 Good, thanks. 199 00:08:41,040 --> 00:08:43,240 ..to discuss the future of their relationship. 200 00:08:44,280 --> 00:08:45,800 Coming out of the commitment ceremony, 201 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:47,320 I got a lot of home truths, 202 00:08:47,440 --> 00:08:49,920 and since that conversation with the experts, 203 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:53,520 I have been realising I've got to like, shift my butt into gear. 204 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,600 How are you feeling after last night? 205 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:00,480 Obviously, it was a pretty hectic night. 206 00:09:00,600 --> 00:09:01,320 Yeah. 207 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:05,520 It's just like, 208 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:08,520 whatever we have is so broken into a million pieces. 209 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:11,360 (PENSIVE SOUNDTRACK) 210 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:12,600 Yeah, yeah. 211 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:17,440 But like, after the commitment ceremony, 212 00:09:17,560 --> 00:09:20,000 I've had some moments to sort of reflect... 213 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,080 ..and, like, going forward, I do feel like 214 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:27,800 I want to be more positive too. 215 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:29,080 OK, cool. 216 00:09:29,200 --> 00:09:32,400 I can see why the experts matched us together, 217 00:09:32,520 --> 00:09:35,480 because, like, you and I have a similar personality. 218 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:37,120 Yeah, I think so too. 219 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,600 We have that sort of similar energy. 220 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,360 I agree. 221 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,040 And like it's a calming energy. 222 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,160 It's a nice energy. 223 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:51,120 This week, I'm going to just try. I'm going to really try. 224 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:52,720 I'm going to take an open-minded approach, 225 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,880 and I'm going to prove to them 226 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,000 that I can take their advice on board. 227 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:58,520 I want to get to know you better. 228 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:00,480 Like, let's just get along with each other 229 00:10:00,600 --> 00:10:02,400 'cause I know we can. Yeah. 230 00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:04,880 Let's just make this situation a little bit better for both of us. 231 00:10:05,680 --> 00:10:07,640 Deal. Deal. 232 00:10:07,760 --> 00:10:10,400 I was really nervous to come and have this conversation with Mel, 233 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,040 but it went really, really well. 234 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:14,240 You've got very warm hands. 235 00:10:14,360 --> 00:10:16,480 It's 'cause they were like this 'cause I was so nervous. 236 00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:17,600 Really? 237 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:19,880 We've like, yeah, drawn that line in the sand. 238 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:21,720 It does feel a lot lighter already. 239 00:10:24,600 --> 00:10:27,480 NARRATOR: While Mel and Luke agree to turn a new leaf... 240 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:32,440 ..Julia and Grayson are still unsettled... 241 00:10:32,560 --> 00:10:38,000 Um, I'm just gonna make some warm water. 242 00:10:38,120 --> 00:10:40,440 ..after a tense commitment ceremony 243 00:10:40,560 --> 00:10:45,240 saw Grayson express his concern at the pace of the relationship. 244 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:50,080 Would I have liked it to be a little further down the line? Yeah. 245 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:53,000 It sounds to me like, Julia, you set the pace, 246 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:56,080 and Grayson, then you said, "Oh, well, OK." 247 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:02,840 NARRATOR: This morning, a lack of sleep 248 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:05,000 seems to have brought some hard feelings 249 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:07,520 between the two to the surface. 250 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,400 I'm really struggling. 251 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:14,360 I haven't slept pretty much at all. 252 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:19,840 Like, even right now, I'm shaking 'cause I'm so sleep deprived. 253 00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,560 So, I felt like there would be some grace 254 00:11:22,680 --> 00:11:26,400 for the fact that I'm sleep deprived. 255 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,080 This morning, 256 00:11:30,200 --> 00:11:33,240 I go into my bedroom and I... 257 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:34,480 Our bedroom. 258 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:36,840 Yeah, our bedroom, 259 00:11:36,960 --> 00:11:39,520 and I said, "Can you do your packing later?" 260 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,640 And you seemed frustrated. 261 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:42,000 You didn't ask - say that. 262 00:11:42,120 --> 00:11:44,000 "Can you do your packing later?" You did not say that. 263 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,000 Grayson, I'm exhausted. 264 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:47,280 That's fine. I understand you're exhausted. 265 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:48,400 But you are annoyed at me. 266 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:50,360 No, no, no, I was annoyed at the way you addressed it. 267 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:55,200 Jules was napping on the couch, so I just left her be 268 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:56,480 and went into the room. 269 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,800 She then came and said, "I need some rest." 270 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:00,680 And I said, "Oh, do you want me to leave?" 271 00:12:00,800 --> 00:12:03,360 And she said, "Well, yeah, I need some rest." 272 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:08,160 Like, sort of just blame it on me. 273 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:11,160 It was just like, oh, I didn't matter at that point. 274 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,880 I just feel like... 275 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:17,840 I feel like I can't do much right, to be honest. 276 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:19,680 So, I just feel like I'm really putting in the effort, 277 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:22,760 like, you know, offering to cook you breakfast and dinner 278 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:24,800 and, you know, offering to go to the pharmacy for you 279 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:27,960 or do your washing or, you know, get your coffees, all that stuff. 280 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:30,440 But I just don't know if you're wondering how I'm feeling 281 00:12:30,560 --> 00:12:32,160 or how I'm going at the moment. 282 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:34,760 Like, I have needs as well at the moment as well. 283 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,440 And... 284 00:12:36,560 --> 00:12:39,840 And I just feel like we're focusing so much of it all on you. 285 00:12:39,960 --> 00:12:43,680 But in terms of who's kind of the stronger person 286 00:12:43,800 --> 00:12:46,440 in this partnership right now, I would say it's you 287 00:12:46,560 --> 00:12:48,080 'cause you're well rested 288 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,680 and I'm asking you to give me some grace. 289 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:53,040 You just are - you're just asking for some grace. 290 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:54,400 What does that mean? 291 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,840 Grayson, I'm literally... This is doing my head in. 292 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,160 (TENSE SOUNDTRACK) 293 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,640 Jules, I'm asking for you to acknowledge what I'm saying. 294 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:05,640 Acknowledge what? 295 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:08,880 I just feel like all the conversations are about you 296 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:10,840 and what you need. 297 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,640 What about what I need, Jules? 298 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:14,800 Because you haven't asked me once about what I need 299 00:13:14,920 --> 00:13:16,880 throughout this whole process. 300 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:18,160 I'm literally... 301 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:21,360 I just can't talk to you when, like, I'm... 302 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:24,920 Oh, god. 303 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,360 I'm doing my best to support her. 304 00:13:31,480 --> 00:13:33,840 But I do feel like I'm in the way 305 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:35,440 and I'm walking on eggshells 306 00:13:35,560 --> 00:13:38,520 and don't feel like I'm taken into account. 307 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:41,160 I just feel like my needs are being overlooked. 308 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:47,480 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 309 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:09,800 NARRATOR: With last night's commitment ceremony 310 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,040 still in everyone's minds, 311 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:14,800 a dramatic gear change is about to take place... 312 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:16,200 (KNOCK ON DOOR) 313 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,040 (HIGH-PITCHED GIGGLE) 314 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:19,320 (KNOCK ON DOOR) 315 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:20,680 Oh, no. 316 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:22,440 Oh! What's going on? 317 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:23,760 ..as the couples embark 318 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:28,640 on one of the most exciting, meaningful, and confronting phases 319 00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,720 of the experiment, Intimacy Week. 320 00:14:31,840 --> 00:14:33,960 The week ahead is upon us. 321 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,000 For Intimacy Week this year, 322 00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:37,880 I've devised a series of tasks 323 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,800 designed to empower our couples 324 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,360 to take the next steps in their relationships. 325 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:43,840 "Bec and Danny." 326 00:14:44,840 --> 00:14:45,880 OK. 327 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:49,880 People may assume intimacy is purely physical and sex focused, 328 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:51,640 but this is not the case. 329 00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:54,360 Oh! Ready? 330 00:14:54,480 --> 00:14:56,920 I want our couples to feel safe, 331 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:58,160 to be able to lean into vulnerability 332 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:02,720 and find the courage to step outside their comfort zones 333 00:15:02,840 --> 00:15:05,520 in order to forge lasting connections. 334 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:07,400 How do you say that word? Hola? 335 00:15:07,520 --> 00:15:08,480 Hola! Hola. 336 00:15:08,600 --> 00:15:10,400 "Hola, couples." 337 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:13,600 Hola? Alessandra. Hola. 338 00:15:13,720 --> 00:15:17,360 "This next phase of the experiment is all about deepening intimacy 339 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:18,560 "with your partner. 340 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,040 "And strengthening your understanding of connection, 341 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,160 "romance and sexual compatibility. 342 00:15:23,280 --> 00:15:27,040 "Later today, I'll be hosting a workshop with all the brides 343 00:15:27,160 --> 00:15:29,440 "and tomorrow with the grooms, where we'll explore 344 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:31,680 "some home truths about intimacy 345 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:34,800 "for you to take back and experiment with as a couple." 346 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,320 Oh, wow. 347 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:37,640 Alessandra, hey? 348 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,920 Let's see what she's gonna make us do. 349 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:41,600 She's the expert. She's the expert. 350 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:42,960 She's the sexpert. 351 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,360 I feel quite excited for Gia to go to this workshop. 352 00:15:45,480 --> 00:15:47,320 She might come back even more naughtier. 353 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:50,120 So I'm... I'm down for that. (LAUGHS) 354 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:53,000 I'm intrigued because we're pretty spicy. 355 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,080 Yeah, I don't know what much. 356 00:15:55,200 --> 00:15:56,200 You know, how much she can help. 357 00:15:56,320 --> 00:15:58,160 I don't know what tools she can throw in the woodworks, but... 358 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:01,040 Toys. Toys, tools. 359 00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,240 Yeah. 360 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:03,880 I'm open to anything, to be honest. 361 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:05,800 (LAUGHS) 362 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:07,000 I'm excited. Are you? 363 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:08,320 It'll be good, yeah. 364 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:10,840 You're gonna have to talk about your feelings again. 365 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:14,600 Right now, Danny and I are forming, 366 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:17,560 like, a deeper and deeper, deeper connection every day. 367 00:16:18,600 --> 00:16:20,000 With Intimacy Week, 368 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,520 I'm hoping that it'll bring out 369 00:16:22,640 --> 00:16:24,760 a little bit more of a vulnerable side from Danny. 370 00:16:24,880 --> 00:16:26,120 He's an oyster. 371 00:16:26,240 --> 00:16:27,560 He's a hard shell, soft inside. 372 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:29,960 She's gonna teach you some things you've never heard of before. 373 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:31,000 You mean you? 374 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:33,640 I was just crack a joke. 375 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:35,480 Let's get intimate. 376 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,320 You know what I mean? Sure. 377 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:40,920 NARRATOR: For Rachel and Steven, 378 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:45,000 Intimacy Week is an opportunity to address some of the challenges 379 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,840 the couple has faced. 380 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:48,840 We've both discussed that intimacy 381 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:51,600 is something that we need to work on. 382 00:16:52,480 --> 00:16:55,560 I'll be the first to admit I struggle in this, in this field, 383 00:16:55,680 --> 00:16:59,160 so I don't know how to talk about that stuff yet. 384 00:16:59,280 --> 00:17:01,200 That's why I don't really have much to really say besides... 385 00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:02,520 That's OK. .."Oh, goody." 386 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:04,440 I don't know what I'm doing. 387 00:17:06,360 --> 00:17:07,920 I'm not great at intimacy. 388 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:10,080 You know, that area is... 389 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:11,520 I not, yeah, I'm not great at it. 390 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:13,040 I need to learn a few things. 391 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,760 I don't know what to expect at this workshop, to be honest. 392 00:17:15,880 --> 00:17:19,440 I'm just like, "What's gonna happen? What's gonna happen here?" 393 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:21,600 I think that's what I'm really excited about. 394 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,000 Working on it together. 395 00:17:24,120 --> 00:17:25,320 Yeah. 396 00:17:25,440 --> 00:17:26,880 Fantastic. Fantastic. 397 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:27,960 (LAUGHS) Fantastic. 398 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:29,720 That's becoming your buzz word. 399 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:31,320 (GIGGLES) 400 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:32,960 I love the little giggle at the end. 401 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:34,640 (LAUGHTER) 402 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:37,120 NARRATOR: For Rebecca and Steve, 403 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:40,760 Intimacy Week has come at a pivotal time in their relationship 404 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,880 with Steve having recently divulged an exhaustive list 405 00:17:45,000 --> 00:17:49,000 of the issues he has with Rebecca during Revelations Week. 406 00:17:49,120 --> 00:17:51,720 Rebecca is consistently that person 407 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,720 where needs to be talking all the time. 408 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:56,480 Rebecca's not my usual type, 409 00:17:56,600 --> 00:17:57,800 and what I mean by that 410 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,280 is just her personality's less conservative than mine. 411 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,080 Her emotions are very high and very low. 412 00:18:04,680 --> 00:18:08,880 Rebecca's very opinionated, a bit more outspoken. I'm not. 413 00:18:09,680 --> 00:18:10,520 I'm trying to do the right thing. 414 00:18:10,640 --> 00:18:12,160 Rebecca's just been a bit impatient, 415 00:18:12,280 --> 00:18:14,280 and that has affected our relationship. 416 00:18:15,480 --> 00:18:18,560 NARRATOR: Oblivious to Steve's list of grievances, 417 00:18:18,680 --> 00:18:20,520 at the commitment ceremony, 418 00:18:20,640 --> 00:18:26,480 a disheartened Rebecca gave insight into her husband's lack of affection 419 00:18:26,600 --> 00:18:27,880 Has Steve made you feel desired? 420 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:32,040 No. 421 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:35,400 So, do you think he looks at you as a friend at the moment? 422 00:18:35,520 --> 00:18:37,520 Yeah, absolutely. 423 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,280 NARRATOR: Despite his previous list of complaints, 424 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:44,720 when pressed by the experts... 425 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:48,080 Do you feel that sense of attraction to her? 426 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,120 Yes, I do. 427 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:52,480 ..Steve professed to being attracted to Rebecca 428 00:18:52,600 --> 00:18:55,680 and committed to remaining in the experiment. 429 00:18:55,800 --> 00:18:58,960 She's very attracted to you and she wants to move it forward. 430 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:00,000 Yes. 431 00:19:00,120 --> 00:19:01,440 The challenge here, Steve, 432 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,240 is now getting onto the same page. 433 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,240 Intimacy Week, 434 00:19:07,360 --> 00:19:08,760 It's going to be very confronting for me. 435 00:19:09,560 --> 00:19:13,360 So far in the experiment, we have been going at Steve's speed. 436 00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:16,160 I'm hopeful for us as a couple moving forward, 437 00:19:16,280 --> 00:19:17,720 but of course I have that self doubt. 438 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:20,680 Like, just that fear of that rejection. 439 00:19:20,800 --> 00:19:22,800 I find him really attractive 440 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:26,360 and he said that he finds me attractive as well. 441 00:19:26,480 --> 00:19:32,200 So, yeah, I'm hoping that he will take on the advice from the experts. 442 00:19:33,360 --> 00:19:35,600 And I just hope, fingers crossed... 443 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:38,520 ..that he steps up. 444 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:41,880 I must admit, I'm actually really looking forward to this. 445 00:19:44,120 --> 00:19:45,520 So, I think it's come at a good time. 446 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,160 Yeah. Yep. 447 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:50,640 How do you feel about it? 448 00:19:51,600 --> 00:19:54,040 I'm not sure what it means yet. 449 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,000 I know what intimacy is. Yeah, yeah. 450 00:19:56,120 --> 00:19:57,960 I know different versions of intimacy. 451 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,680 I'm not sure what they've got planned, so we'll... 452 00:20:00,800 --> 00:20:03,240 Yeah. Who knows? You know, time will tell. 453 00:20:03,360 --> 00:20:04,960 So... Exciting times ahead. 454 00:20:05,080 --> 00:20:06,560 Yeah. Yeah. 455 00:20:06,680 --> 00:20:08,200 So... Yeah. 456 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:10,960 I think we'll slowly move through the friendship zone 457 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:12,280 and see where that progresses to, 458 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,200 and this is what this is designed for. 459 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:15,600 Yep. 460 00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:18,400 I'm a little bit frustrated that we're in this position. 461 00:20:18,520 --> 00:20:20,440 Last night, we had a whole conversation 462 00:20:20,560 --> 00:20:22,080 about getting out of that friend zone. 463 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,640 And now, this morning, he kept on saying friendship, 464 00:20:25,760 --> 00:20:28,240 which pissed me off. Not a good start. 465 00:20:29,360 --> 00:20:31,760 I would like to see things progress. 466 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:35,480 Just the romance side of things. 467 00:20:36,760 --> 00:20:40,480 Intimacy for me has so many different forms. 468 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:42,520 Just... 469 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:44,800 As I said, we just uh... 470 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,680 I'm pretty chill, so we just, uh... 471 00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,520 Yeah, take it as it comes. 472 00:20:51,120 --> 00:20:53,080 He does say he wants to keep progressing. 473 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:56,640 Like, I am really hopeful. 474 00:20:57,960 --> 00:20:59,240 But I just don't know. 475 00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:03,640 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 476 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:10,440 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week begins... 477 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:12,840 Hello! 478 00:21:15,160 --> 00:21:18,720 ..the brides have arrived at their workshop with Alessandra. 479 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,200 Please have a seat. (LAUGHS) 480 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,840 NARRATOR: It will be an opportunity for the group to check in 481 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:26,080 on each other's progress. 482 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:27,880 Good to see you all. 483 00:21:28,000 --> 00:21:33,720 We are at Alessandra' s workshop, today talking all things intimacy. 484 00:21:33,840 --> 00:21:36,680 I love talking about sex. It's good fun. 485 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:38,760 I'm excited. 486 00:21:38,880 --> 00:21:41,840 Welcome to our Intimacy Week workshop. 487 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,280 This kicks off Intimacy Week for all of you. 488 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:48,640 Today, I want to get into everybody's relationships 489 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,480 and the specifics of what is and isn't going on 490 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:56,520 because of course, this is not 'Friendship at First Sight'. 491 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,800 It's meant to build relationships, 492 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:04,720 and that includes romance, actual closeness, emotional closeness, 493 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,320 safety, trust in the relationship, 494 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:13,240 and then all the really fun, exciting, romantic, playful aspects 495 00:22:13,360 --> 00:22:16,240 of a relationship that you get with people who are not your friends. 496 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:20,960 That includes, of course, physical closeness. 497 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,480 And I know for some of you, that's been a bit of an issue. 498 00:22:25,360 --> 00:22:28,200 Others have really jumped into it. 499 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,760 Hey! 500 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:32,480 Gia, that part of your relationship is really flowing freely... 501 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:35,200 Yeah. Yeah, it is. ..and nicely and that's really good. 502 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:36,840 Yeah. 503 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:40,520 I feel like every time we have sex, it gets better and better. 504 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,440 It's more intimate. It's more like we make love. 505 00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:45,120 We don't just have sex. 506 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:49,160 It's quite deep and I think, and it's so lame, but, like... 507 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:50,600 No, it's not lame. 508 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,520 It's what everybody wants. Are you kidding? It's not lame. 509 00:22:53,640 --> 00:22:54,440 For me and Scott, 510 00:22:54,560 --> 00:22:56,640 we are forming a really good, deep connection, 511 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:59,040 and I feel like there's just some energy, 512 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:00,680 and it was there, like the wedding day. 513 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:01,760 Yeah. It's hard to, like, 514 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,200 honestly, keep our hands off each other at this point. 515 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:10,360 Stella, you've also explored a lot in your relationship. 516 00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:13,440 We just connected from the get-go 517 00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:16,760 and the most intimate sex that I had was from the get-go. 518 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,040 Like, I don't know how to even explain. 519 00:23:19,160 --> 00:23:23,440 It just flows, you know, like we did massages. 520 00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,520 We already did, you know, the kitchen bench and this and that. 521 00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:27,720 Like, it's already... Listening to Stella 522 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:29,280 talk about her relationship, 523 00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:32,520 I think it was a bit, "Look how great we are." 524 00:23:32,640 --> 00:23:35,840 Stella does kind of think that she's ticked everything off. 525 00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,080 I like to be manhandled. Yes. 526 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:39,960 Amen! Same! 527 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:41,240 LAUGHTER) 528 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:44,600 I just think she's full of shit. 529 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:49,760 Alissa, I know that you two are also meshing really well. 530 00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:51,920 Yeah, we're very sexual people. 531 00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:54,600 David and I have spoken about that and our needs. 532 00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,760 You know, how many times a week is enough for you? 533 00:23:57,480 --> 00:23:58,400 He's like, "Every day." 534 00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:00,800 I'm like, "Well, that might be a little bit too much for me." 535 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,560 I don't know if I can take that every day, but, maybe. 536 00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,280 (LAUGHTER) 537 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,840 REBECCA: Sitting there listening to everyone 538 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,720 talk about the way things are going and progressing... 539 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:18,560 ..it's a lot. 540 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:21,800 I am obsessed with Danny right now. 541 00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:24,760 It's a pep in my step and it's like the fanny flutters. 542 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,320 Nice! Yes. 543 00:24:27,920 --> 00:24:32,200 I want to get out of this friendship place where he's at. 544 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:33,840 So... 'Cause I'm... 545 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,160 We all know that I'm ten steps ahead. 546 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,440 Relationships are two-way streets. 547 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:43,040 It's not only about what one person thinks is good for them. 548 00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:44,480 (PENSIVE SOUNDTRACK) 549 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,440 And this is really for all of you to think about. 550 00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:51,880 If you're not sure that your needs are being held or being met 551 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:57,040 or being understood, that is very important to bring up. 552 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:58,080 Rebecca. 553 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:01,880 What's going on? 554 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:05,840 (EMOTIONAL SOUNDTRACK) 555 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:15,360 Relationships are two-way streets. 556 00:25:15,480 --> 00:25:18,920 It's not only about what one person thinks is good for them. 557 00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:24,600 Rebecca. 558 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,760 What's going on? 559 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,080 Sorry. 560 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:34,360 Why does it make you 561 00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,600 react emotionally? No, I've started already. Jesus. 562 00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:37,680 Don't - that's alright. 563 00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:40,920 I would like to stop and explore this a little bit. 564 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,200 Oh, it's just... It's just... 565 00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:45,400 It's just a lot. 566 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,800 Like, it is hard, obviously, respecting your partner's speed 567 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:56,640 they want to go at, like, it's hard to meet halfway. 568 00:25:56,760 --> 00:25:58,320 It's very difficult. Very difficult. 569 00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:00,160 And we did tell Steve the other night 570 00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:01,840 he's controlling the pace 571 00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:05,040 and that there needs to be a space for you also 572 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:06,840 to have a voice in that pace. 573 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,120 And it's a fine balance to find, 574 00:26:11,240 --> 00:26:14,320 because you don't want to lose yourself 575 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,160 in the process of respecting your partner. 576 00:26:19,080 --> 00:26:20,760 It's been eight years for me that I've been single. 577 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:22,360 I'm craving more affection. 578 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,680 Everyone wants to feel desired. 579 00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,280 And right now, Steve is not giving it to me. 580 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:33,800 I don't know. I don't know what's going on there. 581 00:26:35,000 --> 00:26:36,320 Please, may I say something? 582 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:41,920 I think that you are needing something in the relationship 583 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,480 that you are not getting. 584 00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,080 But you're more worried about Steve than you are about your needs. 585 00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,080 My sense was that you don't want to scare him off. 586 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:53,000 Yeah. 587 00:26:53,120 --> 00:26:54,440 There's a part of you that says, 588 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:56,760 "Oh, he feels like it's a lot, 589 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:00,720 "so let me just shrink in a little bit so he doesn't feel pressure." 590 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,200 Yeah. 591 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,520 Your courage needs to come in terms of allowing yourself 592 00:27:07,640 --> 00:27:10,240 to remain yourself in this equation. 593 00:27:12,760 --> 00:27:16,960 I'm feeling like I'm going into my past habits 594 00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:18,080 of doubting my self-worth 595 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,040 and then being so fearful of rejection, 596 00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,160 like so fearful of being rejected, 597 00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:26,360 I feel like I have been shrinking with Steve. 598 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:27,920 He reassures me, "I can meet you", 599 00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,680 but he needs to meet me halfway. 600 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:31,480 Yeah, yeah. You can't be the one doing all that. 601 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:33,040 It upsets me about Rebecca 602 00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,920 because when I met her at the hens, 603 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,960 she was so energetic and so loud and full on 604 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:39,480 and, like, comfortable in her skin, 605 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:41,440 and I'm not seeing that with Rebecca anymore, 606 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,760 and I think Steve is making Rebecca doubt herself a little bit, 607 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,120 which is crazy because she is such a (BLEEP) hot mum. 608 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:49,800 Like, she's a bad bitch. 609 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:51,760 She is a firecracker. 610 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,040 Miss Julia! 611 00:27:55,160 --> 00:27:56,440 Hello! 612 00:27:56,560 --> 00:27:57,720 How are you? 613 00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:02,520 I feel very vulnerable sharing 614 00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:04,320 where I'm at right now. 615 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:09,560 This morning, we had our first argument. 616 00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:13,520 The truth is, is that before the conflict, 617 00:28:13,640 --> 00:28:15,640 the connection was building 618 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:18,640 in terms of, like, the laughter, the depth. 619 00:28:18,760 --> 00:28:20,200 We were going there. 620 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:21,640 And then it got derailed. 621 00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,480 And then it got completely derailed. 622 00:28:24,600 --> 00:28:27,040 That didn't just take me a step back. 623 00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:31,440 A lot of emotional safety, 624 00:28:31,560 --> 00:28:35,360 trust, was sort of broken in that moment for me. 625 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:38,840 In terms of repairing, because you've been derailed. 626 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,440 What do you need to repair and to then reassess 627 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:44,600 and regroup and refocus? 628 00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,120 Of course, I want to be attracted to my partner, 629 00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,760 and I am very attracted to Grayson. He's a sexy boy... 630 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:54,920 ..and that's what makes this very nuanced. 631 00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,080 I want to be authentic in this. 632 00:28:59,200 --> 00:29:00,840 I want to be authentic with Grayson. 633 00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:10,640 I'm wanting to honour and respect myself and also lean in. 634 00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,080 I was like... 635 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,040 What is she talking about? 636 00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,040 And I want to continue the emotional depth 637 00:29:18,160 --> 00:29:22,760 and expanding the natural, organic, free-flowing energy 638 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,400 that I probably need to romantically connect. 639 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,000 (THUNDER RUMBLES) OK. 640 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:36,800 And, Rachel, I haven't forgotten about you, queen. 641 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:37,800 Go, girl. 642 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:39,720 What's been going on? 643 00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:43,200 Right now, any kissing, 644 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:44,520 it's very much like a peck. 645 00:29:45,400 --> 00:29:50,520 Since the wedding, we've only had two goodnight kisses, and... 646 00:29:50,640 --> 00:29:54,200 Are they a good night pecks or good night kisses? 647 00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,720 It's very just like... That's it. 648 00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:58,880 Oh. 649 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:02,040 So, this week really has come on a timely thing 650 00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,080 'cause I've said to him, 651 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,200 "I really need you to lean into this 652 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,200 "because I've come here for a romantic connection." 653 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,480 I'm really feeling this with Steve, I want more. 654 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,440 I am, like, physically attracted to my husband. 655 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:13,600 You're ready for that. 656 00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,440 I'm hoping to - for some progression, 657 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,000 'cause if there's not... Yeah. 658 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:20,040 ..it is starting to feel like rejection. 659 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,800 I can understand why Rachel is feeling the way 660 00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:24,280 that she's feeling today. 661 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:25,520 I'm really hoping 662 00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:28,040 that there is a full 360 turnaround for Rachel. 663 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:29,560 She is such a queen. 664 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:31,720 She's bubbly, she's beautiful, she's confident. 665 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,680 She deserves the best 666 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:37,040 and yeah, I hope that Steven can let her in. 667 00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:40,680 I understand slow burn, but like, just a kiss. 668 00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,360 Just kiss me like a proper pash. 669 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:43,560 Actions speak louder than words. 670 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,160 You want to see the action, and the action 671 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,280 will then let you know, "Oh, yeah. 672 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,000 "He's actually showing me." Yeah. 673 00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,400 For me, if at the end of this week, 674 00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,880 I can get a proper kiss from my husband, 675 00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:58,440 I'm like, tick, tick, we're moving in the right direction. 676 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:05,280 So, with that, the first task for Intimacy Week starts today. 677 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:10,600 I want you all to create your ultimate female fantasy night. 678 00:31:10,720 --> 00:31:12,920 Whoo! 679 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:14,240 Ooh! 680 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:17,240 There will be an opportunity for each of you 681 00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,120 to really think about what it is 682 00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,560 that you need to get close to your partner. 683 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:24,440 I want you to remember 684 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:28,520 that this is all about us women feeling powerful in our eroticism 685 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:30,320 and really getting whatever it is 686 00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:32,200 that each and every one of you needs. 687 00:31:32,320 --> 00:31:34,080 It's fantasy night. 688 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:35,440 I'm feeling excited. 689 00:31:35,560 --> 00:31:37,280 Have a lovely, lovely week. 690 00:31:37,400 --> 00:31:39,360 Tonight is all about us girls. 691 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:40,400 I can't wait. 692 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,160 (MAKES WHIP-CRACKING SOUND) (LAUGHS) 693 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:45,280 (MUSIC SWELLS) 694 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:46,840 NARRATOR: With the workshop over, 695 00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,280 the brides are getting started on Alessandra's task 696 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,560 to create their ultimate fantasy night. 697 00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,560 Gia is helping Rebecca pick out some items 698 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:01,760 to give her relationship with Steve a much needed spark. 699 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:04,520 OK. Where are we, babe? 700 00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:07,240 Come... Come with Mummy. Come with Mummy. 701 00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:11,120 I'm excited. I want to get her feeling good about herself 702 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:14,240 and confident and bring back that spark that we all know and love 703 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,200 about Rebecca so she can feel sexy. 704 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:17,520 I want her to feel sexy. 705 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:20,440 You're the hottest 50 year old I've ever met in my life. 706 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:21,680 You're a (BLEEP) bad bitch. 707 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:23,160 He should be chasing after you, babe. 708 00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:25,600 I want her to feel like a baddie 709 00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:26,600 and she is. 710 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:28,720 They're cute, aren't they? 711 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:30,680 I could see you in, like, a nurse outfit. 712 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,960 I could see you doing that and he might be into that 713 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,000 Oh, my god! OK. 714 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,200 I'm really... Oh, that's hot as! 715 00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:42,200 Because you're a businesswoman, babe! 716 00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:44,560 Boss bitch. (LAUGHS) 717 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,040 She's ready for some touch from Steve. 718 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:48,920 I'll get that, I think. Yeah. 719 00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:50,840 I hope that happens for her tonight. 720 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,880 What about a whip? Do you want to get a whip? 721 00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,040 You wanna whip him a bit? 722 00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,520 Oh, my god, yes. 723 00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:01,840 (LAUGHTER) 724 00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:10,640 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week continues 725 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:12,360 Rachel... Hi! 726 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,440 ..is hoping Alessandra's task 727 00:33:14,560 --> 00:33:17,320 might help her address the lack of intimacy 728 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:19,400 in her relationship with Steven. 729 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,280 Tonight is fantasies night. 730 00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:28,760 Essentially, it is us girls bringing to life a fantasy with our partner. 731 00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,000 So, what do they mean by fantasies? Like... 732 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:38,120 So, it's an intimate fantasy that I will be sharing with you. 733 00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,000 Yeah. OK. No worries. 734 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,240 Obviously, intimacy is really lacking for Steven and I. 735 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:49,120 So, my fantasy right now with my husband 736 00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:53,640 is that he will kiss me, and really kiss me, not peck me. 737 00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:56,240 Actually, give me a big 'ol pash. 738 00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:57,960 That's a thick notepad you've got there. 739 00:33:58,080 --> 00:33:59,240 (LAUGHS) 740 00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:02,840 There's no passion in our kissing at all. 741 00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:06,360 And since the wedding, 742 00:34:06,480 --> 00:34:10,200 I've only had two good-night kisses, like pecks. 743 00:34:10,320 --> 00:34:11,600 They're barely kisses, you know? 744 00:34:11,720 --> 00:34:14,800 It's just very how you kiss your mum. 745 00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:19,320 I am hoping that, you know, we can progress just our kissing. 746 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:20,400 Just our kissing. 747 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,800 But I am going to need the apartment for a little bit. 748 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:25,000 OK. No worries. 749 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:26,480 See you soon. See you soon. 750 00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:30,440 I'm actually feeling really excited for this task. 751 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,720 I want to, like, create a rom-com vibe, 752 00:34:33,840 --> 00:34:37,120 like in 'Love Actually' and hold some placards up, 753 00:34:37,240 --> 00:34:40,400 you know, kind of welcoming Steven to my fantasy. 754 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:42,200 OK. 755 00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,440 Ask him some really direct questions too. 756 00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:50,360 Get him to really actually open up to me more. 757 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,520 Now, I'm going into this really open hearted. 758 00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:57,720 We're here to put ourselves out there. 759 00:34:57,840 --> 00:34:59,200 We're here to be vulnerable. 760 00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:03,760 And that's what I'm going to do. 761 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:07,800 I'm really hoping he leans into this. 762 00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,000 I want this so badly with him. 763 00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:15,800 I want this to progress. 764 00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:20,680 I need some romance. I need it. 765 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:53,320 Alrighty. 766 00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:56,400 It says, "Please read out loud." 767 00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:06,640 "Welcome to my fantasy task. 768 00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:10,200 "I ask that you please answer all questions clearly. 769 00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:20,040 "What things do you like about me and my personality?" 770 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:25,360 The things I like about you are, 771 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,960 is your caring, selfless nature that you have. 772 00:36:30,520 --> 00:36:32,040 And you bring me up every day. 773 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,240 You feel like that you're my number one fan 774 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:38,760 and you make me never doubt myself, 775 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:41,400 and I really appreciate that about your personality. 776 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:44,600 That's the number one thing I can say about you that I really enjoy. 777 00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:55,480 "What physical asset of mine do you like the most?" 778 00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,800 I love your eyes and your laugh. 779 00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,000 Your laugh is very contagious. 780 00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,040 And having said that, 781 00:37:01,160 --> 00:37:03,640 you actually have more than one type of laugh too. 782 00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:05,920 You've got a giggly one, a serious one, 783 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:09,960 and there's the nervous one that we had at our wedding. 784 00:37:12,560 --> 00:37:14,400 So, you have a few. You have a few laughs. 785 00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,440 (MUSIC BUILDING) 786 00:37:30,720 --> 00:37:32,000 "Will you kiss me now, 787 00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:33,880 "in this moment, 788 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:36,560 "the kind of kiss that makes me feel something?" 789 00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,280 I can kiss you, Rachel. 790 00:37:56,880 --> 00:37:58,120 I can kiss you. 791 00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:03,400 But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something. 792 00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:18,240 "Will you kiss me now, in this moment, 793 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,040 "the kind of kiss that makes me feel something?" 794 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,560 (PENSIVE SOUNDTRACK) 795 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:42,480 I can kiss you, Rachel. 796 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:45,200 I can kiss you. 797 00:38:47,000 --> 00:38:50,360 But I'm not too sure if it's going to make you feel something. 798 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:54,600 Hmm. 799 00:38:59,880 --> 00:39:02,880 (EMOTIVE SOUNDTRACK) 800 00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,520 I need to understand what you mean by that. 801 00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:12,160 I really... 802 00:39:13,320 --> 00:39:14,720 Yeah. 803 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:17,720 You need to help me understand what you mean by that. 804 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:19,240 And I'll let you - and I'll explain. 805 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:21,920 I'll explain. Yeah. 806 00:39:22,040 --> 00:39:24,080 Do you want to have a seat and I'll explain? 807 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:25,440 Sure. 808 00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:28,440 Now, I'm really... 809 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:44,240 I'm going to be really open to you with this. 810 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:47,280 (EMOTIVE SOUNDTRACK) 811 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,840 The way I stand in the relationship right now, 812 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:53,800 we feel like roommates 813 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:55,240 and I feel like it is friendly. 814 00:39:56,640 --> 00:39:58,920 For me to kiss you and make you feel something, 815 00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:02,560 I need to feel that romantic connection, 816 00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:06,120 and unfortunately, I haven't felt that romantic connection as of yet. 817 00:40:09,360 --> 00:40:12,360 This is really hard for me to be saying this right now. 818 00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,920 For me to get intimate and to get that passion, 819 00:40:17,040 --> 00:40:18,600 I need that spark. 820 00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:21,640 I need that romantic connection. 821 00:40:21,760 --> 00:40:23,560 I need that flirtiness. 822 00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:26,160 I need all of those dots to be connected... 823 00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:29,320 ..for me to feel comfortable 824 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,760 and to give you the passion that you want, 825 00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:33,680 that you need to feel in the kiss. 826 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:37,360 I like you, Steven. 827 00:40:37,480 --> 00:40:39,160 I'm physically attracted to you. 828 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:42,760 I'm having lucid dreams about you finally grabbing me 829 00:40:42,880 --> 00:40:44,880 and kissing me, and it makes me excited. 830 00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,200 And to sit here and say, you feel no spark for me? 831 00:40:50,120 --> 00:40:53,560 Nothing. What a slap in the face. 832 00:40:59,240 --> 00:41:00,480 I need to know. 833 00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:02,360 Why are you here? 834 00:41:02,480 --> 00:41:06,600 Because you're holding so much back from me. 835 00:41:06,720 --> 00:41:08,880 It's all on your time schedule. 836 00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:12,800 Everything is on your time schedule currently, 837 00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:17,120 and all I asked was a kiss. 838 00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:20,200 A kiss that makes me feel something more than a peck, 839 00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:21,600 than you would give your mum. 840 00:41:21,720 --> 00:41:24,480 That's it. That's all I wanted. 841 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,840 That's all I wanted was a kiss 842 00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:29,160 that's more than just... 843 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,360 That's it and... 844 00:41:31,480 --> 00:41:36,800 I didn't want to kiss you and it to feel empty either, Rachel. 845 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:38,000 Yeah. I wanted to... 846 00:41:38,120 --> 00:41:39,720 I want to kiss you with passion. 847 00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:43,160 I actually don't think you want to kiss me at all, Steven, 848 00:41:43,280 --> 00:41:47,680 and I think you actually don't want to tell me directly 849 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:49,800 that you're not into me, 850 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:51,720 that you're not physically attracted to me. 851 00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:54,720 Direct question. 852 00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,960 Do you have any physical attraction to me at all? 853 00:42:02,400 --> 00:42:04,240 It's a yes or no question, Steven. 854 00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:06,600 I don't want to dance around. 855 00:42:06,720 --> 00:42:08,320 I don't want you to dance around politically 856 00:42:08,440 --> 00:42:10,720 and give me a politically correct answer. 857 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:11,840 Yes or no? 858 00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:14,440 Are you physically attracted to me? 859 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:16,120 Trust me, I can handle it. 860 00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:19,880 There's more to it than a yes or no answer. 861 00:42:20,000 --> 00:42:21,520 But it is - there isn't. 862 00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,640 There is, Rachel. There is. 863 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,320 I'm a romantic and passionate person. 864 00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,080 That's the way I am 865 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:32,160 and I'm proud of it to be like that. Well, where is it? 866 00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:34,480 Where's the romance and passion that you're speaking of? 867 00:42:36,280 --> 00:42:38,200 I need to feel the passion, the spark. 868 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:40,760 I haven't felt that spark yet, Rachel. 869 00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,240 So, I just keep doing this and wait for you to feel a spark? 870 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:50,680 Yeah, sweet. 871 00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:56,560 Cool. 872 00:42:57,760 --> 00:42:58,880 Um... 873 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:02,200 Yeah, I think we need some space right now. 874 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:05,160 I'm feeling really, really rejected over a kiss. 875 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,720 Um, and sitting here having you say to me 876 00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:13,840 that you've not viewed me romantically at all when... 877 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:19,120 I was exactly right. 878 00:43:19,240 --> 00:43:20,960 I'm out on a ledge. I'm by myself. 879 00:43:22,280 --> 00:43:24,120 (BLEEP), just boot me off it at this point. 880 00:43:24,240 --> 00:43:25,400 (BLEEP) this. 881 00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:27,800 (BLEEP) 882 00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,120 I don't deserve this. 883 00:43:31,240 --> 00:43:34,160 (DRAMATIC MUSIC) 884 00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:44,640 (CRIES) No. 885 00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,120 (EMOTIVE SOUNDTRACK) 886 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,400 (CRIES) 887 00:44:01,240 --> 00:44:03,560 NARRATOR: With the ultimate fantasy night underway, 888 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:07,080 more brides are getting ready for their intimate night in... 889 00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:11,720 ..with their husbands soon to find out what's in store for them. 890 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,560 Oh, what the... 891 00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,600 Holy, damn! 892 00:44:17,720 --> 00:44:19,440 Are you for real right now? 893 00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:27,600 My plan for David was dress up, look all sexy for my husband, 894 00:44:27,720 --> 00:44:29,080 because he deserves... 895 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:30,360 He deserves a present 896 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:32,480 and I love to give. I'm a giver. 897 00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,520 Damn. You're looking so good. 898 00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,160 Do you like it? Damn! 899 00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,440 Yeah? 900 00:44:37,560 --> 00:44:40,840 I'm not gonna lie. My jaw dropped to the floor, and you needed, 901 00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:45,040 literally a vacuum cleaner to suck up all the pieces. It shattered. 902 00:44:45,160 --> 00:44:47,400 Oh, my god. Damn. 903 00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:48,520 Wow. 904 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,080 Made you a salmon poke bowl. 905 00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,120 I'm not sure if that's dinner 906 00:44:55,240 --> 00:44:56,600 or this is dinner right here... Alright. Well... 907 00:44:56,720 --> 00:44:59,080 ..in front of me. Well... 908 00:44:59,200 --> 00:45:01,480 There's a lot of sexual tension and a lot of chemistry 909 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:02,640 with David and I. 910 00:45:02,760 --> 00:45:04,120 (LAUGHTER) 911 00:45:04,240 --> 00:45:05,840 I'll try to collect my thoughts. 912 00:45:05,960 --> 00:45:07,400 If people want to call it fake, that's OK. 913 00:45:07,520 --> 00:45:10,240 But I'm having a great time with my husband. 914 00:45:10,360 --> 00:45:14,160 Like we are, we are really vibing. 915 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:17,960 NARRATOR: As Alissa and David prepare for dessert... 916 00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:19,600 Let's get this foot massage going. 917 00:45:19,720 --> 00:45:21,160 (LAUGHTER) 918 00:45:22,120 --> 00:45:26,440 ..Gia is preparing for her own fantasy night with husband, Scott. 919 00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:32,160 I'm dressed as a bunny tonight for my husband. 920 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,640 He'll like anything with me half-naked. 921 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:37,440 Could be wearing a bloody towel and he'd be happy. 922 00:45:38,840 --> 00:45:41,160 It is ultimate fantasy night. 923 00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,240 Oh, my nipples are nearly out. Let me cover that up. 924 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,520 Scott should be prepared. 925 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,200 I'm gonna kind of tell him what to do tonight 926 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,680 and make him kind of wait on my hand and foot. 927 00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:52,120 Usually, Scott likes to be in control at all times. 928 00:45:52,240 --> 00:45:53,600 He's a control freak. 929 00:45:53,720 --> 00:45:55,160 But really, it's not his night, is it? 930 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,760 It's mine. So he's gonna have to get used to it. 931 00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,760 Is this not PG enough for Channel Nine? 932 00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,320 Hello? 933 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,080 Hi, handsome. 934 00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,480 Holy shit! 935 00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:08,760 (LAUGHS) 936 00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,680 Wow! Um, what's it called? Like, what she... 937 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:16,880 It was quite different. 938 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,760 You're gonna do whatever the hell I say tonight. 939 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,040 Is that alright? 940 00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,400 I might like that. (LAUGHS) Is that alright with you? 941 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:23,720 Yeah. OK. 942 00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:25,040 I need you to take all your clothes off 943 00:46:25,160 --> 00:46:26,360 and just be in your jocks, please. 944 00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:29,200 Yeah, I'm a bit of a control freak. 945 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:30,640 Take all your clothes off. 946 00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:31,840 Alright. 947 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:34,040 And apparently, I've got to be told what to do. 948 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:36,480 But, you know, I kind of like it. 949 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,040 (GROWLS) Hi! 950 00:46:39,640 --> 00:46:41,600 Scott was very pleased with tonight. 951 00:46:41,720 --> 00:46:42,960 I was very pleased as well. 952 00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:45,520 Do it on the other side. 953 00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:46,760 I'm really happy. 954 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:49,000 I think you need more oil. 955 00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:51,000 It's definitely got us in the mood. 956 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:52,440 I'm ready to get you guys the hell out 957 00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:53,600 so I can take care of my man tonight, 958 00:46:53,720 --> 00:46:54,920 and he can take care of me. 959 00:46:55,920 --> 00:46:59,120 NARRATOR: But as Gia continues her passionate night in with Scott.. 960 00:46:59,240 --> 00:47:00,600 Come on, hurry up! 961 00:47:00,720 --> 00:47:01,680 (LAUGHS) 962 00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:05,800 ..one bride is taking fantasy night to a whole new level. 963 00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:11,640 At school, were you bullied? 964 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,720 Wowser. 965 00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:18,360 Um, sorry. Could you say that again? 966 00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:20,760 What I brought to the table for Intimacy Week 967 00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:22,640 is a bit of a list of questions 968 00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:27,160 and connecting with someone in this way is really sacred to me. 969 00:47:27,280 --> 00:47:31,360 What's the most healing experience you've had in friendship? 970 00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:32,440 Um... 971 00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,000 How does that mean? How do you mean by that? Sorry. 972 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:42,760 Since we kind of had our little argument, 973 00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:47,560 I feel like this is a way to reset, reconnect, and build intimacy. 974 00:47:48,280 --> 00:47:50,760 Has a stranger ever changed your life? 975 00:47:51,600 --> 00:47:53,200 Um... 976 00:47:54,200 --> 00:47:58,480 Um, Julia's ultimate fantasy, I... 977 00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:04,640 It's... It's interesting. 978 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:07,280 I... 979 00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,920 Obviously, everyone's got their own definition 980 00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:12,760 of what an ultimate fantasy is. 981 00:48:15,560 --> 00:48:16,760 Hmm! 982 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:18,360 Put your mouth over it. 983 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,200 That's hot. 984 00:48:20,320 --> 00:48:24,240 What do you think my superpower is? 985 00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:26,200 Like, can you fly or something? 986 00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:29,600 For Jules, it's a questionnaire. 987 00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:31,080 Is it mine? 988 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:32,120 No. 989 00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:35,520 OK, obviously, this is intimacy week. 990 00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:37,080 Let's change the pace a little bit. 991 00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:39,120 (LAUGHS) 992 00:48:39,240 --> 00:48:43,040 Um, what's the greatest moment you've had on the footy field? 993 00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:48,320 Look, to be honest, I'm disappointed. 994 00:48:48,440 --> 00:48:51,960 What about me is most strange or unfamiliar to you? 995 00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:57,160 We had a chance to build chemistry and romance, 996 00:48:57,280 --> 00:48:59,840 but this isn't building intimacy for me. 997 00:48:59,960 --> 00:49:01,400 We've got a lot more here. 998 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:03,120 What's the most insightful thing you've learned 999 00:49:03,240 --> 00:49:06,600 from the personal development and therapy that you've done? 1000 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:10,600 There is questions you can ask to build intimacy. 1001 00:49:10,720 --> 00:49:13,000 Absolutely. But the ones that I copped today weren't. 1002 00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:17,000 What's your favourite quality about your ex? 1003 00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:20,920 I have no idea what she's thinking. 1004 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,600 I feel like I'm having a mind-gasm. 1005 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:28,920 Like an orgasm, but in the mind. 1006 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:32,880 We're definitely building something. 1007 00:49:35,920 --> 00:49:39,520 Having, like, those mind-gasms through conversation. 1008 00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:41,480 That in itself is really beautiful. 1009 00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:42,960 Really sacred. 1010 00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:44,920 Why do you think we met? 1011 00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,360 Um, why do I think we met? 1012 00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:48,680 Yeah, that's a bit of a hard one. 1013 00:49:50,040 --> 00:49:52,840 My ultimate fantasy night was kind of perfect, to be honest. 1014 00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:55,440 I'm having such a good time. 1015 00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:59,240 NARRATOR: Still to come... 1016 00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:02,240 Will Steve give Rebecca her ultimate fantasy? 1017 00:50:02,360 --> 00:50:04,080 If you wanted me to put it on... 1018 00:50:04,200 --> 00:50:07,200 Um, yeah. I mean... 1019 00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:10,800 NARRATOR: Bec's intimacy task reveal a different side to Danny. 1020 00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:12,280 To be honest, I'm gonna... 1021 00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:13,960 I'm actually going to be really honest now. 1022 00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:15,400 It made me feel a bit emotional. 1023 00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,400 NARRATOR: And in search of clarity, 1024 00:50:19,520 --> 00:50:21,960 Grayson asks the hard questions. 1025 00:50:22,080 --> 00:50:26,360 Can you see any kind of future with me? 1026 00:50:28,720 --> 00:50:29,840 Um... 1027 00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:37,760 NARRATOR: As Intimacy Week continues... 1028 00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:44,040 ..Mel and Luke's fantasy night task is proving successful 1029 00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,920 after their shaky start to the experiment. 1030 00:50:49,320 --> 00:50:50,960 I'll pay that. Good shot. 1031 00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:52,360 Wow! 1032 00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,000 I chose to do something fun for Luke and I. 1033 00:50:55,120 --> 00:50:56,520 So, yeah, we're here at mini golf. 1034 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:00,760 (LAUGHTER) 1035 00:51:00,880 --> 00:51:01,800 Sorry! 1036 00:51:01,920 --> 00:51:03,600 Completely missed it. The fact that you missed it! 1037 00:51:03,720 --> 00:51:06,680 Luke and I were getting along really well. 1038 00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,760 Mona Luca, here he is. 1039 00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,600 (LAUGHTER) 1040 00:51:11,720 --> 00:51:14,760 We've been laughing, having banter, which is huge for us. 1041 00:51:14,880 --> 00:51:16,640 It's the baby steps. 1042 00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:18,280 But I do feel like we're moving forward. 1043 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:19,560 Cheers. 1044 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,160 NARRATOR: While Mel and Luke finally seem to be hitting it off... 1045 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:26,400 Paint brushes down. 1046 00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:28,840 ..back at the apartments, 1047 00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:32,840 a romantically cautious Brook's artistic choices 1048 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,520 have caught Chris by surprise. 1049 00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:37,520 Ta-da! 1050 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,360 That's your dog that died. 1051 00:51:45,240 --> 00:51:48,040 And then a footy ball, obviously. 1052 00:51:49,040 --> 00:51:50,560 Green shirt. 1053 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:53,120 Yeah. 1054 00:51:54,720 --> 00:51:56,680 I think I've done a pretty good job. 1055 00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,600 I'm just not sure about a dead dog. 1056 00:52:03,560 --> 00:52:05,320 Show me yours. 1057 00:52:06,560 --> 00:52:07,720 (GASPS) 1058 00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:09,840 Oh, that's... 1059 00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:12,320 What the hell? That's so good! 1060 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,480 Oh, my god, you've made it so cute. 1061 00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:17,840 You remember the date? 1062 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:18,760 Yeah. 1063 00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:20,400 Oh, bless your cotton socks. 1064 00:52:28,280 --> 00:52:30,240 NARRATOR: Down the hall, 1065 00:52:30,360 --> 00:52:33,000 Bec is keen to get started on a painting activity 1066 00:52:33,120 --> 00:52:35,800 of her own with husband, Danny. 1067 00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,000 For the ultimate fantasy night, 1068 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:41,400 I'm going to blindfold Danny, 1069 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,560 and I'm going to write on him in paint 1070 00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:47,560 words that reflect how I feel about him. 1071 00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:50,520 And then he is going to do the same thing for me. 1072 00:52:50,640 --> 00:52:52,480 Intimacy, for me, at least, 1073 00:52:52,600 --> 00:52:56,680 is about that connection and like going deeper within your soul. 1074 00:52:56,800 --> 00:53:00,080 That is something that Danny struggles with. 1075 00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:05,240 Danny uses humour to mask him having to get too deep with things. 1076 00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:09,480 I just hope he's going to be taking this seriously. 1077 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:11,960 I want to see my husband being vulnerable 1078 00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,560 and really talking about his feelings. 1079 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:21,040 This task is going to really connect us. 1080 00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:22,760 Are you ready? Yeah, come on. 1081 00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,840 Don't be scared, darl. 1082 00:53:30,040 --> 00:53:32,280 (LAUGHS) Oh, look at this. 1083 00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:36,520 What the (BLEEP) is going on here? 1084 00:53:38,280 --> 00:53:39,960 Are you ready? 1085 00:53:43,800 --> 00:53:45,480 This is so weird. 1086 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:48,440 Ooh! 1087 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:49,960 Oh! 1088 00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:52,440 What's going on here? 1089 00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:54,000 Are you painting on me right now? 1090 00:53:55,520 --> 00:53:56,760 What, and what are you painting? 1091 00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,040 I'm painting on you... 1092 00:54:00,040 --> 00:54:04,440 ..words that when I think about you and our relationship... 1093 00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:07,520 ..come to mind. 1094 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:12,560 You OK, babe? 1095 00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,240 It's actually quite relaxing. 1096 00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:18,400 It feels good. 1097 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:19,640 I like it. 1098 00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:21,040 Yeah? Do you? 1099 00:54:23,840 --> 00:54:26,880 To be honest, putting the blindfold on, I didn't really want to do it. 1100 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:29,320 I didn't want to do it. 1101 00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:35,160 But as soon as it was on, like you forget where you are, 1102 00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,280 what's going on, you're just in that moment. 1103 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,160 I felt at peace. 1104 00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,440 OK, you ready? 1105 00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:46,760 So, I've put... 1106 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:49,280 "Trust." 1107 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:51,720 "Adore." 1108 00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,240 "Hopeful." 1109 00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:54,920 "Handsome." 1110 00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:56,520 You're so cute. 1111 00:54:56,640 --> 00:54:58,240 "Work." 1112 00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:00,080 And "Loyalty." 1113 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,040 To be honest, I'm going to... 1114 00:55:03,160 --> 00:55:04,480 I'm actually going to be really honest now. 1115 00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:06,080 It made me feel a bit emotional. 1116 00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:09,000 It made me - I don't know why. 1117 00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:11,680 You got to paint me now, babe. 1118 00:55:12,360 --> 00:55:13,760 Let's get in the mood. 1119 00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:15,120 You got it? 1120 00:55:15,240 --> 00:55:17,080 I'm not that good at putting it into words. 1121 00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,040 But just like the intimacy of it was a beautiful experience... 1122 00:55:22,960 --> 00:55:25,600 ..and I felt like she'd put so much trust in me. 1123 00:55:25,720 --> 00:55:27,120 Do you need some wine? 1124 00:55:27,240 --> 00:55:28,280 Yeah. 1125 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:29,800 Come here, sweetheart. 1126 00:55:32,480 --> 00:55:35,520 In that moment, I realised how much I care about her. 1127 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,360 It just - I feel a bit emotional. 1128 00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:39,720 It's (BLEEP) weird. 1129 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,000 I... (BLEEP) 1130 00:55:41,120 --> 00:55:42,400 Get this camera out of my face. 1131 00:55:42,520 --> 00:55:43,800 (LAUGHS) 1132 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:46,600 It's weird. I don't even know why. 1133 00:55:46,720 --> 00:55:50,160 I just feel - I feel like a bit choked up. Um... 1134 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:56,000 I've had a lot of emotions shut off in my adolescent years. 1135 00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:57,280 Do you know what I mean? 1136 00:55:57,400 --> 00:56:00,960 And some of these emotions are coming back up to the surface 1137 00:56:01,080 --> 00:56:04,400 and it's things I haven't felt in years. Like, I'm like, 1138 00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:06,360 I feel like a bit of a (BLEEP) schoolboy. 1139 00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,320 So, what I've written is this... 1140 00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:14,960 "Adore." 1141 00:56:15,080 --> 00:56:17,280 'Cause that's our song. Yeah. 1142 00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:18,240 "Lovers." 1143 00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:19,560 "Trust." Yeah. 1144 00:56:19,680 --> 00:56:21,200 You put 'trust' as well, didn't you? Yeah. 1145 00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:23,040 Back of your leg says, "Forever." 1146 00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:24,440 "Sexy." 1147 00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:25,640 Oh, thanks. 1148 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:27,400 'Cause you look sexy. 1149 00:56:28,360 --> 00:56:32,160 Honestly, that felt really intimate. 1150 00:56:32,280 --> 00:56:34,240 How do you feel about the words I wrote? 1151 00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:35,560 I think they're amazing. 1152 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:37,080 I didn't have time to think about them. 1153 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:38,480 No, of course not. But, like, I like, 1154 00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:39,600 I liked what I wrote. 1155 00:56:39,720 --> 00:56:41,040 I love what you wrote. 1156 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:45,920 Honestly, hearing him write that he wrote 'forever' on my leg... 1157 00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:50,000 ..was really pretty euphoric. 1158 00:56:50,120 --> 00:56:53,360 He did not have to write that on my leg, 1159 00:56:53,480 --> 00:56:55,840 which makes me really think 1160 00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:58,160 that, like, he's really serious about this. 1161 00:56:58,280 --> 00:56:59,720 That's so cute. 1162 00:56:59,840 --> 00:57:05,520 Right now, I have the biggest crush on my husband. 1163 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,920 I adore him, I adore him. 1164 00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,000 If this continues on the trajectory that it is now, 1165 00:57:12,120 --> 00:57:14,840 then yeah, I can see myself falling in love with him. 1166 00:57:14,960 --> 00:57:17,480 Favourite word would probably be loyalty, 1167 00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:19,440 because without that we have nothing. 1168 00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:22,000 That'd be my favourite word. 1169 00:57:22,880 --> 00:57:25,880 Every day, like, I see a different part of her, 1170 00:57:26,000 --> 00:57:28,400 or I feel a different kind of way about her. 1171 00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:30,360 It's something I've never experienced before. 1172 00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:32,960 Cheers, darling. Cheers. 1173 00:57:34,520 --> 00:57:36,040 Here's to painting each other. 1174 00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:40,040 NARRATOR: Down the hall, 1175 00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:43,120 Rebecca has returned from the adult store... 1176 00:57:43,240 --> 00:57:44,440 Honey, I'm home! 1177 00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:45,520 Oh! 1178 00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:49,080 ..with high hopes for her evening with husband, Steve. 1179 00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:50,800 So, my fantasy tonight with Steve, 1180 00:57:50,920 --> 00:57:52,280 I'm just going to basically go in 1181 00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:54,040 and just show him a little piece 1182 00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:55,680 that I'd like to put myself in for him 1183 00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:57,200 and strut around the room. 1184 00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,440 I'm hoping he'll go, "OK. Penny's dropped. 1185 00:57:59,560 --> 00:58:00,720 "Now, I'm getting it." 1186 00:58:00,840 --> 00:58:02,880 And, yeah, steps it up a bit. 1187 00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:04,560 Glass of wine? 1188 00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:06,600 I would love a glass of wine. Yeah. 1189 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,400 I don't know what his reaction is going to be, 1190 00:58:08,520 --> 00:58:10,880 but still, I am really hopeful. 1191 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:14,320 And you know what? 1192 00:58:14,440 --> 00:58:16,240 I don't think Daddy's Steve 1193 00:58:16,360 --> 00:58:18,160 is as sweet and innocent as he makes out to be. 1194 00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:21,240 He might just come around to a bit of a... 1195 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:26,120 I must admit, I'm very curious about your day. 1196 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:27,520 I had the best time of my life, 1197 00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:28,520 so we went shopping, 1198 00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:30,200 and we had to basically pick out costumes 1199 00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,520 that we would potentially wear. 1200 00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,440 And basically, I went into a - it was a sex shop. 1201 00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:36,680 And can I say one thing? 1202 00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,600 We were like, oh, honey, we had... 1203 00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,000 We were like, running around like mad women. 1204 00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,160 We're like, mums gone wild. 1205 00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:42,600 To be honest, I could have bought the whole shop. 1206 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,280 (LAUGHS) That's - that's a concern! 1207 00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:47,520 (LAUGHTER) 1208 00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:48,520 So, yeah. 1209 00:58:48,640 --> 00:58:50,280 Gia picked this out for me because she's like, 1210 00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,520 "You're a working..." Can I have a look? What is it? 1211 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,880 She's like, "You're a boss bitch." 1212 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:56,760 Um, yeah. 1213 00:58:57,360 --> 00:58:58,480 You know, it's... 1214 00:58:59,360 --> 00:59:01,520 These things that I picked, just so you know, 1215 00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,480 are like, the most covered up. 1216 00:59:04,600 --> 00:59:07,600 Yeah, I... Yeah, that's a good one. 1217 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:09,320 If you wanted me to put it on... 1218 00:59:09,440 --> 00:59:11,840 Um, yeah... 1219 00:59:11,960 --> 00:59:14,920 I mean, look, I'd rather not, 1220 00:59:15,040 --> 00:59:16,640 because it's not something that I'm... 1221 00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:19,440 I guess, uh, what's the word? 1222 00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:21,400 It's just not for me. 1223 00:59:22,200 --> 00:59:23,320 It's very disappointing. 1224 00:59:23,440 --> 00:59:24,720 He didn't want to do the task. 1225 00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:25,680 He didn't even want to try. 1226 00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:27,480 Do you like lingerie? 1227 00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,840 When I think lingerie, I don't think sex shop. 1228 00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:31,800 I want to feel desired. 1229 00:59:31,920 --> 00:59:33,280 I want to feel sexy Rebecca. 1230 00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:35,200 I'm not getting any of this. Zero. 1231 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,440 This is on fast forward. 1232 00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:39,920 We know what this is all about, 1233 00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:43,840 but, uh, intimacy comes in many shapes and forms, 1234 00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:48,120 and it doesn't have to be like this immediately. 1235 00:59:49,120 --> 00:59:50,840 Rebecca is a wonderful person, 1236 00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,000 strong, independent. She's confident. 1237 00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:55,920 But if I'm being completely honest, 1238 00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:59,160 I find Rebecca and I are a little bit different. 1239 00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:02,680 Rebecca's a little bit full on. 1240 01:00:02,800 --> 01:00:04,520 It's not about me stalling us 1241 01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,320 and going, "Hey, we're doing my speed." 1242 01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,320 It's about us finding our speed. 1243 01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:09,560 That's where I'm at. 1244 01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:11,840 I came in here to find my person. 1245 01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:15,880 I'm being my authentic self and he's not meeting me halfway. 1246 01:00:16,000 --> 01:00:17,360 You have to adjust. 1247 01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:18,520 I have to adjust. 1248 01:00:18,640 --> 01:00:19,880 He doesn't want to try. 1249 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:21,280 Just all lip service. 1250 01:00:22,160 --> 01:00:23,800 And we have to meet halfway. 1251 01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:25,600 Like, I feel like I'm going crazy. 1252 01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:27,360 I feel like we're on completely different pages. 1253 01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,000 Be happy. We're good. 1254 01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:33,080 And right now, I'm starting to doubt the relationship. 1255 01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:34,760 Like, I don't know whether Steve's intimate. 1256 01:00:34,880 --> 01:00:36,600 I do appreciate all this, I really do. 1257 01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:38,640 Yeah. It brings us closer. 1258 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:50,920 NARRATOR: It's Stella's ultimate fantasy night... 1259 01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,440 (LAUGHS) 1260 01:00:52,560 --> 01:00:56,160 ..and while Filip is getting in touc with his creative side, 1261 01:00:56,280 --> 01:01:00,440 it's Stella who's taking some artistic license with her fantasy. 1262 01:01:01,360 --> 01:01:03,880 So, you know how it's my fantasy day? 1263 01:01:04,000 --> 01:01:04,720 Yes. 1264 01:01:04,840 --> 01:01:07,520 I actually feel like you should be taking your clothes off as well. 1265 01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:10,640 (LAUGHS) 1266 01:01:11,800 --> 01:01:14,880 Oh, at least you went to the gym today for a pump. 1267 01:01:15,000 --> 01:01:16,440 (LAUGHS) 1268 01:01:16,560 --> 01:01:18,840 Alright, you know what? Alright. 1269 01:01:18,960 --> 01:01:22,080 I think every woman will agree with me. 1270 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:24,080 Multitasking men are quite sexy. 1271 01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:27,560 So, tonight, I made him do all of these little tasks. 1272 01:01:27,680 --> 01:01:29,800 How about we do those push-ups? 1273 01:01:29,920 --> 01:01:31,480 Let's do 70. 1274 01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:33,080 I'm gonna stop at 69. 1275 01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,760 (LAUGHS) 1276 01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:37,800 I am enjoying taking the reins tonight. 1277 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,560 It's great because... 1278 01:01:39,680 --> 01:01:41,840 He just, like, goes with the flow, you know? 1279 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,440 That's what I like about Filip. 1280 01:01:43,560 --> 01:01:45,560 Oh, here we go! 1281 01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:48,440 Lucky you didn't ask me to get up 1282 01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:49,760 probably about two minutes before 1283 01:01:49,880 --> 01:01:51,760 because as we progress, 1284 01:01:51,880 --> 01:01:53,320 I might not be able to leave the table, 1285 01:01:53,440 --> 01:01:55,160 you know, for natural reasons. 1286 01:01:57,280 --> 01:01:58,480 I was trying to concentrate. 1287 01:01:58,600 --> 01:02:02,360 I'm trying to draw, but my eyes would go everywhere. 1288 01:02:02,480 --> 01:02:05,920 She was just sitting in a certain way, looking rather inviting. 1289 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:08,640 Thankfully, I was sitting down 'cause, you know, just... 1290 01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:10,200 I've got tight jocks on. 1291 01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:11,360 Before I do the unveiling, 1292 01:02:11,480 --> 01:02:14,280 I just want you to know that this... like, I tried. 1293 01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:15,880 Alright, alright? 1294 01:02:16,000 --> 01:02:18,120 So, this is what I come up with. 1295 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:21,640 (LAUGHS) 1296 01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:24,760 This is me. (LAUGHTER) 1297 01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,400 Picasso was definitely on a full semi. 1298 01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:32,520 (LAUGHTER) 1299 01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:35,680 I just I had to emphasise that there's three legs there. 1300 01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:36,760 Two are bigger than the other. 1301 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:39,720 All I saw is a love heart, so I'll just focus on that. 1302 01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:44,520 (LAUGHTER) 1303 01:02:44,640 --> 01:02:46,760 What's wrong with it? Look at it. 1304 01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:48,400 There's definitely nothing wrong with it. 1305 01:02:48,520 --> 01:02:49,800 It's just great. 1306 01:02:49,920 --> 01:02:51,080 (LAUGHTER) 1307 01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:55,040 NARRATOR: While Fantasy Night draws to a close, 1308 01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:58,640 for one couple, the evening is far from over. 1309 01:02:59,880 --> 01:03:05,120 After Julia's ultimate fantasy left her husband feeling confused, 1310 01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:07,640 Grayson is eager to raise his concerns 1311 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,000 about the state of their relationship. 1312 01:03:11,240 --> 01:03:15,560 I'm genuinely into Julia, but that conversation 1313 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:18,960 felt like I was entrenching myself more in the friend zone. 1314 01:03:19,080 --> 01:03:20,480 It's Intimacy Week. 1315 01:03:21,160 --> 01:03:22,880 This is designed to help you 1316 01:03:23,000 --> 01:03:25,280 move into the next stage of your relationship. 1317 01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:26,920 And she's not, not leaning in. 1318 01:03:27,040 --> 01:03:29,440 That's not leaning into me, asking me a series of questions 1319 01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:31,360 about my football memories. 1320 01:03:32,760 --> 01:03:34,200 If that's intimacy to you, 1321 01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:38,320 I mean, we're on completely different planets. 1322 01:03:40,520 --> 01:03:45,760 Um, I've wanted to sort of have a conversation with you 1323 01:03:45,880 --> 01:03:48,800 around how I'm feeling 1324 01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:50,800 and how we're feeling and where we're at. 1325 01:03:50,920 --> 01:03:53,840 Sure. But, um, I'm really, 1326 01:03:53,960 --> 01:03:55,360 really nervous to have this conversation, 1327 01:03:55,480 --> 01:03:56,560 just so you know. OK. 1328 01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,840 I can't discount your... 1329 01:04:00,960 --> 01:04:05,000 ..your ultimate fantasy of intimacy. 1330 01:04:06,160 --> 01:04:08,960 But for me, mine's, like, so different. 1331 01:04:10,960 --> 01:04:13,920 Um, by asking me questions 1332 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:16,760 like, what's my fondest memory on the football field, 1333 01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:20,640 or what was the best trait of my ex-girlfriend, 1334 01:04:20,760 --> 01:04:23,320 does that literally build intimacy for you? 1335 01:04:23,440 --> 01:04:24,960 Like, is that... It's getting to know you. 1336 01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:27,040 These are things that I don't know about you. 1337 01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:30,000 And I wanted to get to know you more. 1338 01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:35,240 Again, I was trying to lean in and be curious, 1339 01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:36,680 but I wanted to keep it light 1340 01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:39,720 because there had been some tense energy around us. 1341 01:04:39,840 --> 01:04:45,600 For me, I think intimacy is more around the chemistry romance side. 1342 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:48,840 Those questions, like, is that your ultimate fantasy 1343 01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:51,680 of like your ultimate fantasy? 1344 01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:53,920 That's where we are at right now. 1345 01:04:54,040 --> 01:04:57,560 Um, no, I think that that's where you're at. 1346 01:04:58,720 --> 01:05:01,360 This chat was just definitely not what I was expecting. 1347 01:05:02,240 --> 01:05:06,920 I feel like the task was a really positive step 1348 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:09,120 in the right direction for Grayson and I. 1349 01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:11,520 I thought we were building connection. 1350 01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:14,280 So, yeah, it's a bit confusing. 1351 01:05:14,400 --> 01:05:17,320 I want to be creating that emotional safety. 1352 01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:20,120 You know, like, these things are important. 1353 01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:22,000 Yeah. 1354 01:05:22,840 --> 01:05:24,080 OK. 1355 01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:27,440 It's super deflating. 1356 01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:30,840 Like, she uses words like leaning in and getting curious, 1357 01:05:30,960 --> 01:05:32,360 and there's zero of it. 1358 01:05:32,480 --> 01:05:35,600 I just can't seem to get any sort of solid clarity 1359 01:05:35,720 --> 01:05:38,640 out of any conversation that I have with Julia. 1360 01:05:38,760 --> 01:05:40,360 And for me, that just tells me, 1361 01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,360 you know, she's not invested in it. 1362 01:05:44,240 --> 01:05:45,360 I want to build a connection. 1363 01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:51,800 But at this point of our relationship, I'm really confused 1364 01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:54,080 about how you actually feel about me. 1365 01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,240 Can I ask you this question? 1366 01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:58,440 Yeah. 1367 01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:01,920 Can you see any kind of future with me? 1368 01:06:05,400 --> 01:06:06,520 Um... 1369 01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:20,040 I'm really confused about how you actually feel about me. 1370 01:06:22,080 --> 01:06:24,080 Can I ask you this question? 1371 01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:28,640 Do you - can you see any kind of future with me? 1372 01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:31,240 Um... 1373 01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,680 That depth of connection needs to happen 1374 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,400 before anything... 1375 01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:40,920 I've asked you... I just want you to answer this question for me. 1376 01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:42,080 It's really simple. 1377 01:06:42,200 --> 01:06:43,480 Well, I'm just trying to... Can you see 1378 01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:47,280 an emotional connection building for us in the future? 1379 01:06:48,800 --> 01:06:51,760 If we're able to communicate 1380 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:55,400 and there's emotional safety in terms of my needs, 1381 01:06:55,520 --> 01:06:56,440 that's the path. 1382 01:06:56,560 --> 01:07:01,480 Um, I've asked her blatant questions. 1383 01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:05,120 I get this long-winded answer. 1384 01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:08,600 We need to just continue creating safe spaces 1385 01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,280 to really talk about what's really under the surface. 1386 01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,120 Just tell me if you like me or not. 1387 01:07:13,240 --> 01:07:16,800 You know, leaning in and really reading the energy 1388 01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:18,040 of the other person. 1389 01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:20,880 Jules, can you answer this question for me? 1390 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:22,560 I feel like we're in court or something, 1391 01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:24,800 and you're, like, firing these questions at me, 1392 01:07:24,920 --> 01:07:27,760 and it just doesn't feel easeful. They're just questions. 1393 01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:29,400 So, you don't like answering questions. 1394 01:07:29,520 --> 01:07:30,480 You like to dance... Yes, I do. 1395 01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:31,760 It's the way - it's your tone. 1396 01:07:31,880 --> 01:07:33,520 You use all this language... But this is so nuanced. 1397 01:07:33,640 --> 01:07:34,920 ..that I don't, I don't understand, 1398 01:07:35,040 --> 01:07:39,160 like, you use language, like, 'lean in' and 'get curious'. 1399 01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:44,960 Curiosity is not asking me questions 1400 01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:47,800 about what my favourite football... 1401 01:07:47,920 --> 01:07:49,680 Like, that is not intimacy. Well, I'm sorry. 1402 01:07:50,840 --> 01:07:52,280 Obviously, you're not happy with what I've... 1403 01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:53,560 Absolutely not. 1404 01:07:53,680 --> 01:07:56,800 OK, well, this is a problem then 'cause... 1405 01:07:56,920 --> 01:07:59,760 Jules, I feel at this point, that I'm wasting my time. 1406 01:07:59,880 --> 01:08:01,840 Oh, OK. Yeah. Absolutely wasting my time. 1407 01:08:01,960 --> 01:08:03,000 Yeah. 1408 01:08:04,240 --> 01:08:07,120 I'm getting hurt. I'm starting to feel hurt. 1409 01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,880 I've been so invested in this, but I'm just... 1410 01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:17,600 Yeah, I'm just not getting any, any sort of reciprocation. 1411 01:08:17,720 --> 01:08:22,760 Julia needs to step up to the plate for this to progress any further. 1412 01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:24,560 That's how I feel right now. 1413 01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:27,080 NARRATOR: Tomorrow night... 1414 01:08:27,200 --> 01:08:28,600 It was huge for us. 1415 01:08:28,720 --> 01:08:32,040 ..Mel and Luke's incredible transformation. 1416 01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:34,000 I feel closer with Mel after the task, 1417 01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:35,880 because that physical gap between us 1418 01:08:36,000 --> 01:08:37,720 has kind of been bridged a little bit. 1419 01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:40,320 We have been progressing like in the right direction. 1420 01:08:41,440 --> 01:08:43,440 RACHEL: I really want to send a clear message to Steven. 1421 01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,200 NARRATOR: Rachel draws her line in the sand. 1422 01:08:48,440 --> 01:08:49,680 I'm taking this. 1423 01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,320 NARRATOR: A tense boys workshop. 1424 01:08:53,440 --> 01:08:54,920 I feel like you're skirting around my questions. 1425 01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:56,320 I disagree with you. 1426 01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:03,760 NARRATOR: Alessandra calls out Steve's behaviour. 1427 01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:06,400 The lack of respect that you're showing me is appalling. 1428 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:07,840 Really tread lightly. 1429 01:09:07,960 --> 01:09:09,720 I don't take to this well. 1430 01:09:09,840 --> 01:09:12,480 NARRATOR: And in a shock turn of events, 1431 01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:17,440 one bride calls it quits and makes a dramatic exit. 1432 01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:22,640 Captioned by AI-Media ai-media.tv